So in many of our lives we hear about these "levels" and "rules" to get you through love and life. Well, here are mine....
1. Only let your mind wander as far as you are willing to actually go....
2. People change their ways not their personality....
3. Be willing to learn and become the expert...You don't know everything...If you can't learn, you can't grow....
4. Be accountable....
5. If you are married, whether you consider your ring annoying or not to mean much....wear it anyway....everywhere....
6. It is okay to have friends of the opposite sex while in a relationship....real friends that is....
7. Be open-minded....not gullible....
8. Everything coined as a "jewel" or "gem" is not one....don't believe the hype aka Social Networks....
9. If she/he is upset with you.....don't cry over spilled milk but clean it up before it spoils....
10. Ladies, break out those heels and dress, if he has a wandering/wondering eye either A. You aren't the one for him which is not either of your faults or B. Honey you slipping time to bring his eyes back to you....
11. Gents, if you want her to act like and think like a lady, BE the man plain and simple. Doesn't mean every time you drop the hammer down she is gonna jump, a man has other qualities learn them, you don't know how ASK!! A man means many things to different women....
12. If you know something has expired, what do you do with it? Throw it out right? Apply this in every aspect before the mold comes. And even if you clean the mold, the old "residual" is still there until a professional is brought in and even then sometimes....you catch my drift....
13. Know when to shut up (my biggest struggle), I have the gift of gab and while being open and honest is a plus it is also a curse. Double edge sword technique exists in other areas as well ( i.e. you are gifted with buns to twerk but will you do that in your place of employment) know your audience....
14. Not everybody has to know your every desire....leave something to the imagination. If he/she doesn't want to figure it out, he/she doesn't want to work....I question the morality of lazy people....
15. Dress to impress, just don't be a dressed up garbage can....outward appearance is great "look good, feel good" concept but if ya insides all tore up, I suggest you do everything you can to fix that don't expect the next person to do it for you....
16. Allow yourself to feel, don't let your feelings consume you....we work based off what we feel, react later when your mood has completely changed....
17. Take out the trash, anything you feel that is unnecessary waste, I challenge you to handle it accordingly...put it on the curb never to be seen again...if it is of later value, store it in the basement or attic you'll get back to it during spring cleaning....
18. Value yourself, don't depreciate right off the lot. Appreciate....
19. Work hard, play hard, and whenever you find time, do whatever makes you happy even harder whether it is working or playing...just don't be neglectful....
20. Lastly, love yourself but don't be so full of yourself you leave no room for anybody or anything, not even error....you are bound to end up hating yourself and alone.....
From my Original Thinking....*Muah*
Your original thinking = real talk! Every one of your 20 points above are VALID and make sense whether they sink in immediately or they have to be pondered upon to fully sink in, all of the above makes perfectly great sense. Some of these I need to work on. Some of these I need make a part of my life...but that's another story for another time lol! As always keep doing what you doing SP!
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