Hey yall*
Well, we are a quarter of the way through the new year and as some would say cuffing season is about to be nonexistent! Although I personally am not in a “cuffing situation”, I know others who have been, but won’t be soon. Once you are past that point in life and you begin to look at your future, do you think about what is in store relationship-wise?Or do you plan on being a “cuffer/cuffee” for a while? In 2012, do we look at guys and females and wonder how many “miles” are on them, or how many times they been “cuffed”?Or nowadays does it even matter!!!???
The other week I was watching the movie What’s Your Number?The basis of the movie was about a chick who read a magazine article that said the average woman has slept with 10 men in their “sex life”, so she goes back through all her exes trying to figure out how many folks she slept with only to find out….Okay that’s all I’m telling you if you haven’t seen it, it is a very funny romantic comedy. P.S. The tip counts as one!!
I feel that when you are going into a relationship, whether it be for cuffing or for long-term, that how many people a person has slept with reflects on their character. Now duly noting the almighty “Double Standard” for men and women, I think men are somewhat more disturbed by how many men a woman has slept with vs. a woman worried about how many women a man has slept with. We are labeled as “hoes”, “act rights”, “sluts”, you catch my drift, while men are labeled as “Pimps”, “Playas”, and “The Man”. Although I don’t understand this concept, I look past it and just choose what I feel MY man should be like and what characteristics and qualities I want him to have. If you want a turn with a chick that has smashed the homies, don’t wife her, and women QUIT SMASHING THE HOMIES!!!! I don’t care how small a city or place is you don’t have to sleep with them all!!! If I decide I wanna kick it with a group of friends and talk to a couple of them in the group at different times, then that’s what I’m going to do, but I’m promising if they are blessed to last that long only one of em’ is getting the goods!
Now days we let men define us because of our actions and what we are doing is allowing them to put titles on us, because we as women are living up to them! Granted, some men are just dogs and are going to talk bad about you no matter what you do, but you have your own image to uphold and maintain!!! Pick a better bunch, and spread them out over time, everyone isn’t boyfriend/girlfriend material, and everyone has a past. You can know everybody in the world, but if you can’t remember first and last names and what order you slept with your partners, I personally think you have a problem on your hands. I mean some women are “damaged” persay and “go through a phase” after being hurt, running into the arms of anyone who acts like they care, so of course somebody gotta do the job, be the hoe, take one for the team, etc. I just know that it won’t be me!!!
So I ask you this, should you bring up how many partners you have been with in your next relationship?Is this important info or is it something that you keep in your past?I mean of course you want to make sure they didn't sleep with a friend or whatnot, but shouldn't that information be apparent beforehand? What’s Your Number…..
*Muah*
Well, we are a quarter of the way through the new year and as some would say cuffing season is about to be nonexistent! Although I personally am not in a “cuffing situation”, I know others who have been, but won’t be soon. Once you are past that point in life and you begin to look at your future, do you think about what is in store relationship-wise?Or do you plan on being a “cuffer/cuffee” for a while? In 2012, do we look at guys and females and wonder how many “miles” are on them, or how many times they been “cuffed”?Or nowadays does it even matter!!!???
The other week I was watching the movie What’s Your Number?The basis of the movie was about a chick who read a magazine article that said the average woman has slept with 10 men in their “sex life”, so she goes back through all her exes trying to figure out how many folks she slept with only to find out….Okay that’s all I’m telling you if you haven’t seen it, it is a very funny romantic comedy. P.S. The tip counts as one!!
Now days we let men define us because of our actions and what we are doing is allowing them to put titles on us, because we as women are living up to them! Granted, some men are just dogs and are going to talk bad about you no matter what you do, but you have your own image to uphold and maintain!!! Pick a better bunch, and spread them out over time, everyone isn’t boyfriend/girlfriend material, and everyone has a past. You can know everybody in the world, but if you can’t remember first and last names and what order you slept with your partners, I personally think you have a problem on your hands. I mean some women are “damaged” persay and “go through a phase” after being hurt, running into the arms of anyone who acts like they care, so of course somebody gotta do the job, be the hoe, take one for the team, etc. I just know that it won’t be me!!!
So I ask you this, should you bring up how many partners you have been with in your next relationship?Is this important info or is it something that you keep in your past?I mean of course you want to make sure they didn't sleep with a friend or whatnot, but shouldn't that information be apparent beforehand? What’s Your Number…..
*Muah*
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