What If?

Hey everyone *waving*

O gosh its been so looonnnggg and I know u all missed me lol no really I just been having to handle a few things and my mind has been distracted but I am going to try my best and bring forward some good reads!!

Thought of the moment: If time stood still and you had an opportunity to see 5 things in the past, present, or future what would they be?? Choose wisely.....

As we all know, time does three things...1. Never stands still 2. Doesn't wait for anyone 3. Is always going to be existent whether we live or die. Knowing this information, does it make you change your mind? I thought it might! My biggest issue at times is living in a "What If" frame of mind. What if I did this and if I could change this, and if I could see ahead I would do this. People often say If I knew then what I know now things would be different....and ur right but who's to say that it wouldn't be worse? We always assume if we changed this one thing everything would be better. I beg to differ, clearly if you change that one thing you are changing everything before and after it and may not be for the good! That's exactly why I live my life with no regrets! Yes I feel bad about some decisions I have made and yes I feel great about others but as I have always said Whats done is done!

I often feel as if, if God wanted it any other way then by his will it would have been done. Sometimes we must go through certain things to build character, make us stronger, to walk into a blessing, and to experience the struggle. If we are already prepared for what's coming what is the point of relying on God when it happens. Yes his word says that we should have faith and be steadfast and unmovable but ultimately with our freewill it is about how we choose to handle situations and taking responsibility for our decision making.  What's the point of carrying guilt if it doesn't help us learn and grow? There isn't a reason so let that regret go, you know the problem now figure out the solution. Don't crisis build, simplify ur problem, weigh pros and cons, measure the consequences, and keep it moving. This doesn't mean keep repeating, it means change your thinking and your actions shall follow.

Okay, so just realize everything in life is just temporary. If it is going good, enjoy it, it won't last forever and if it is going bad, don't worry that won't last forever either. Always remember Today is not forever! Smile your blessed!

My Original thinking ~Yours Truly SP~ *muah*